How to Make a Guy Notice You
Do you often find yourself hoping that a particular guy will ask you out for a date? Do you wish that he would feel the same way towards you as you do towards him? Although it might seem like guys are hard to get a date with, that doesn’t necessarily mean that they don’t want to get to know you. There are ways for you to make a guy notice you and have him want to date you.
Probably the easiest method is to catch his eye and this may seem a bit difficult
There are however things that you can do to make yourself more appealing and irresistible. For starters, maintain a pleasant appearance. Looking good is in everything including protecting yourself from unwanted attention. For instance, a streak of lipstick on one of your lips can give him the wrong idea.
You don’t want him to think that your lips hate him, so use lip liner to make him think that your lips are naturally more kissable. Straight lipsticks or lipstick with a natural color will flatter you, as the color makes your lips pop and gives them a soft look. Keep your hair and make up fairly simple; tousles, bonnets, hats and sunglasses are all in style, but only if they don’t detract from your femininity. If you really want a guy to take notice of you, don’t attempt to be something your not.
Confidence is perhaps the most attractive quality that a woman can have and if you have this quality, more than likely a guy will take notice of you. This can be found in everything from how you walk, your posture, how you dress to how you speak. Confidence will come from feeling good about who you are. If you feel good about yourself and how you look, the natural effect will be to exude this quality to others. Take a look at people around you and notice the woman who is going out and feeling confident and happy. It is something about who they are that makes them exude positive energy.
Your man, hopefully is no different, and if he is, then this quality will come natural to him
Kindness is another quality that will make you more likely to be noticed. Most of us don’t realize just how important kindness is until it is not. A sacrifice for a stranger, like compliments or a small act of kindness will greatly rub on a guy and help him to realize just how important you really are. Help an old lady cross the street, carry a bag for your friend, let a stranger get off your vehicle. All of these small acts are recognized when you do them and will make him feel closer to you. More importantly, he will want to help you when something else requires your expertise!
Although many women have a natural correspondence with their girlfriends, most men find it nice to have a “rendezvous caller” on call. You can also make yourself more appealing by going on a regular email or letter-) regularly. You might even consider having a subject line that says something about the weather or the place where you are, or maybe just saying how much you enjoy someone’s company, because if they are in the mood for fun, they are the ones who will write the invitation letters and ask you out.
These are just a few simple suggestions that can lead you to more dates and more success. It doesn’t have to be hard or mean spirited. All you need to do is think about how you act toward others and what quality you are allowing into your life. Allow a man to take an interest in who you are, and he will certainly notice how fabulous you are!